My Story and My Why
Bonus Tip - Keep Reminders Close By
A bonus tip to help you along the way. Like any journey, there will be mountains and valleys. These ups and downs are unavoidable, so I recommend keeping reminders close by. Whatever they may be a video, letter, email anything that reminds you of your story and your why.
I’d be lying if I didn’t share that there were times while on my journey that I consider throwing in the towel and quitting. For example, I burned out at the end of 2020 trying to “rescue” family members and client careers. Like many others last year, I didn’t have healthy boundaries in place and stress was at an all-time high. However, I was fortunate to have a bright light shining through those darkest moments.
While resting and recovering, I would often look at the client feedback form below. It’s from a client who I’m proud of because he has accomplished quite a bit since working together. I never told him how much this really meant to me so I have in my calendar to call him to thank him and share how he unknowingly helped me on many long days and late nights.
Sustainable change is difficult but if you own your story and have established your why they will make the journey easier. Like many great movies or stories, it’s often darkest before light or the lowest point before the breakthrough. Most likely, there will be days when you ask yourself is all this worth it or should I just give up. I encourage you to have hope and faith that something great is around the corner.
Once you break through that’s when the “magic” starts to happen. Below, I have a couple of recent text messages that are included in my why reminders each having its own special story or circumstance in which both got offers on better roles. This helps reaffirm that I’m on the right path in my story’s journey. The best part of it is that these why’s become part of your story and fuel future why’s. Today, I’m fortunate to have several of my why reminders on my desktop and framed.
Please take some time to reflect on your story to own it so far and start creating your why if you haven’t already done so.
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